Cole's grandparents and brother, Dean, come to see us every summer. So far it's been great for them to have that connection and relationship. I know that one day the questions will come and I'll be honest with him. But I also know I won't tell him the negative things that may change who he sees himself to be. But knowing he has a brother is so special to him, and I pray that it will benefit both of the boys throughout their lives. Having an open adoption with Cole has been great so far. And I feel that it's good for all of us. They love both of my children as their own grandchildren, not just Cole. And we love them dearly. It may not be for everyone, and nobody thinks that it may always be smooth sailing, but for now it's good and happy and comforts all of us to know we are their supporting eachother, loving eachother. John and Wanda didn't give up a grandson, they just gained an extended family along with him.